Couples
Therapy

Fighting seems part of the relationship.

Once, your relationship felt intimate and loving, but now, it feels like you are nothing but roommates. This lack of intimacy makes you wonder,

“How did we ever get there? Once long ago, we felt so close, so supportive of one another. I couldn’t wait to see her. We could talk for hours and never get tired of the other. She had my back; I had hers.”

But now, your relationship feels disconnected, like two strangers passing in the night. You no longer feel like you’re a priority to him; everything and everybody comes before you. You say, “I feel so resentful and alone. Little fights now become big fights. Does he even love me anymore? Then the fights, oh the fights!”

A fight will happen; the only question is when. You don’t even remember what started it – a moment ago, you were quietly watching television, but now, you’re at each other’s throats.

Constant fighting with your partner has left you both helpless and alone.

Love is not lost – only placed on the back burner.

You still love your wife and want so badly to reconnect with her, but no matter what you do, you feel trapped in this cycle of conflict. Lately, it seems conflict is the only thing that still connects you.

Mending the relationship with her is something you want desperately, but you don’t know how to repair it. You can’t keep going on like this but know you need some help.

As his wife, you want to feel appreciated and respected. The last thing you want is for every little thing to erupt into a big fight. At this point, you don’t know how to fix it.

Both of you desire the old relationship you once had, and finding help from a neutral party can make a difference.

Start mending your relationship.

I offer a safe and supportive environment free from your patterns of hostility.

Using Emotionally Focused Therapy, you’ll learn to be more transparent and vulnerable to one another. This approach allows you to communicate more openly in your relationship and let the resentments fade.

My role is not to take sides but to serve as a neutral party who can listen to both sides, ask questions, and allow each of you to express your innermost feelings uninterrupted by anger and fighting. The goal is for you to rekindle the intimacy as you support one another again.

It’s time to reconnect with your partner and start enjoying the fulfilling relationship you deserve. Reclaim the feeling of closeness you felt at the start. Learn to communicate deeply as you understand your partner’s emotional needs. Don’t let your marriage slip through your fingers.

Call, text, or email now for your free 15-minute consultation.